Wednesday, 13 April 2011

Wise man said...




A wise man once sat in the audience and cracked a joke.

All laughed like crazy.

After a moment he cracked the same joke again and a little less people laughed this time.

He cracked the same joke again and again,

when there was no laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said,

"When you can't laugh on the same joke again and again, then why do you keep crying over the same thing over and over again”.




'Learn to move on'…

(from my mail box)

(In memory of a friend, arwah Azie who passed away a few years ago after an operation ..13th April was her birth date..we still miss her...Al-Fatihah..may Allah SWT bless her soul..amiin..)

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When I read the "wise man said"..this song came to mind..







22 comments:

i amsterdam said...

A very wise advise indeed...

But why do we keep crying?? Coz sadness is not the same as happiness. I still cry over lost ones :(

Cheqna said...

I.A dear,

sometimes we can let go and sometimes we can't..I still cry over the lost of loved ones too..

I believe that's human nature.

absolutely emy said...

memang sangat sedih bila kita kehilangan orang yang kita sayang..

Brigita T Alvarado Photography said...

hi dear friend - love this blog post so powerful

Al-Manar said...

What a doctor to make a patient laugh that heartily!

Cheqna said...

Emy,

Mendoakan yang telah pergi dan mengingati kenangan manis boleh meredakan kesedihan, insyaAllah.

Cheqna said...

Hi Brigita!

Good to see you back here. :-)

Cheqna said...

Al-Manar,

It surely is a gift, may be if I know such a doctor, I may do my check-up frequently.. :-)

(or may be not as I don't like going to clinics..hehehe..)

TK said...

I love the song very much..
Bole tak buat posting pasal scones and share the recipe.Scones hari tu membuatkan I termimpi2 nak makan scones...hehe

Cheqna said...

TK,

A friend asked me if I've tried since then..but I haven't sebab fobia my first 2 tries b4 that sessions tak menjadi..hehe..

but at least now I know my mistakes masa buat tu, so for you, insyaAllah I'll try to make it..tungguuuu..

:-)

Jolly Princess said...

Hmmm... you gave me something to think about. "When you can't laugh on the same joke again and again, then why do you keep crying over the same thing over and over again”.Nice analogy. :)

ツbieaz@bie Azreenaツ said...

Nice song n love it...
memory yang takleh dilupakan sampai bila2 :)

Chybee said...

this is indeed so true! thanks for sharing girl. Be tough and pray for him :)

lina@happy family said...

Crying can ease the pain, but crying over and over again will only slow you down from healing...

If I miss my Mother, I'll also send prayers for her

I like UB 40's songs :)

Cat-from-Sydney said...

Cheqna,
My Mama has lost so many loved ones in her life. Her remedy? Me...!!!! and the rest of the feline family. We are better than doctors, she said, especially when it comes to healing illness of the heart. purrrr....meow!

NICK IRFAN said...

al fatihah jgk utk kwan akak tu...

papabear said...

that's a good story and love that song.. reminds me of my time in the states..

Amri Abd Rani said...

Al Fatehah utk Arwah Azie..
percaya dan yakin lah, bahawa kita akan berjumpa mereka di Syurga...amin

TheFusionTea said...

Assalamualaikum, Al-Fatihah. Only time and a lot of prayers can heal.

NARDtheNERD said...

very meaningful sis.
:))

Magento themes said...

Its really got meaning.But that pain also goes with time.The day when you lost your friend, you cried a lot.But can you cry today like the same?If this will happen we cant go forward.This is nature's gift.

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Maria said...

A very effective way to convey a very good message! I really like it. Most of us, specially women have a tendency to linger onto their past. We keep on remembering the unfortunate events & waste our valuable energy & intellect. Isnt it?

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http://ring-o-sing.blogspot.com

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